I don't know how it got to be Sunday again....to be honest I have been struggling with writing my blog lately. It is hard to pretend that everything is always hunky dory....and sometime I feel like when I read it over....it sounds a little forced...
I am sure y'all don't notice it. I can tell that I have a little "low grade" depression and it feels like I need to save all of my energy for work because I have to do that!
I am sure it will pass....as I just keep plugging along because as I have said before and as trite as it sounds TIME is the great healer.
OK....here is whats up.
I started the Netflix series called The Serpent. Now to be honest I called my sister after episode one [she had already finished it] and said should I keep going?
But she assured me that it would be good so I plowed into episode 2. She was right. I have finished 5 episodes now and I want to go in there and finish it but I also want something to watch tonight so I am holding off. I will tell you that it moves back and forth through some years but you will figure that out pretty quickly.
It is based on a true story and the music and fashion was a draw for me!
Next up is this little situation I purchased from a flea market to go in a loft area for a client. Since the wait time is so long for upholstery...I thought to go in another direction! I can not wait to put this area together!
Just think rug and accessories....etc!
At the same house I had the runner installed and it looks so darn good! It is by Stanton.
So classic....looks like a mans tweed suit.
I was at Kravet last week searching for fabrics and they had a new wallpaper book. It also has matching fabrics.
Y'all know how much I love my coffee table which is similar to this wood [not shape] and I saw this one at a flea market the other day....swoon!
Here is what has been keeping me up at nights....and that is putting together a lighting plan. If y'all think this is easy I am here to say nope.
I always want a good mix of gold....dark and silver. Plus you have to figure out which ones will all be in a site line so that it doesn't look busy.
And one more thing...I am excited to be using this wallpaper....
I know...who am I? I mean this is every color in the book!
Oh but wait there is one more thing. Take a seat for this one because surprise....it is about cooking. I have made this soup/stew about 10 times. To the point where I can get the ingredients from memory.
There you have it. Just random thoughts and events but hey it's better than a sharp stick in the eye.
I'm not quitting but just know that my post might be sporadic for a bit.
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I love your blog and your design style and that you share your journey with us. I have a feeling most of your readers will be there for you no matter when or what you post. Take care of yourself!
My mother used to say that all the time - "sharp stick in the eye"! I love your posts...whenever you can post. Hang in there, I think we all have "low grade depression" for one reason or another. Sending good wishes and don't work too hard!
Sherry,
Longtime reader, first-time caller.Yes, trying to make you laugh. Not sure how many men read your blog based on the comments. I just want you to know I am out here, another interior designer, always rooting for you.
Amazed at your bravery in sharing both your struggles and successes. I almost always nod my head and say, that is the correct choice, and your eye is so good. My aesthetic is different, but I so appreciate what you do, and how you engage your audience. Well, except this wallflower. I know bloggers need to connect to their audience. I will try to be a better person by starting to comment some. I just wanted you to know that while you may be struggling to write, the lurkers that are on all blogs need to step up and say hello to the bloggers that write their hearts out. Thanks for all that you do. Know that you are wildly appreciated.
If I had the picture of that cat on the limb with the phrase "Hang In There" I would post it. You do what you can do-but put yourself first...really that is what's important !
Sherry, I’m always excited to see a post from you because I know I’m in for inspiration, humor, and your unique charm. Take whatever time you need for yourself. Health and sanity come first. I’ll look forward to reading your next post whenever you’re ready to write it.
I have been following you for a couple of years now (blog, Instagram)....and i love hearing from you...don’t give up...your posts are informative, funny, helpful, interesting, beautiful....and raw.....and that’s what I love. Take care of you...gosh, don’t we all experience the ups and downs of this crazy thing we call life, .but you let us into your world (positive and negative) and so it is greatly appreciated....wishing you all the best as you travel up and down this roller coaster right now..
awww, luv, don't you just hate depression? I'm in one myself and it sucks. Here you are feeling low but your posts lift so many.
Personally I soak up everything you share like a sponge, please stay with us!
your fan
Debra
Sending you lots of love, sympathy and understanding. You take care of yourself and know that this faithful fan will be here for your posts, wildly happy to see them in my inbox, whenever you can get to them on your to do lists. You are a fantastic inspiration and I just love visiting the blog and your instagram. xo
There are so many of us who are in your corner and cheering you on. You've really battled quite a huge life change when the rug was pulled out underneath you. Yet, you forged ahead and still worked your magic in home decor. Your work is a blessing in keeping you busy. Sometimes life may seem so daunting but as an old ad claimed "you've come a long way baby".
Sending you love and light and compassion! I, too, have dealt with periods of mild depression after a life-altering event. My therapist told me it was ‘situational, not chronic’ and that gave me hope. So, take extra good care of yourself right now. You are amazing! When you post, I’ll be excited to see it in my inbox. And when you don’t, I’ll be sending you extra love and understanding. I’ll always be a fan.
Oh my gosh, Sherry!!!! Your honesty is so pure. We are all here for you to write whatever you need to & whatever you want! We love you & will be here for you!! Yes, we were initially attracted to your design talent & that’s what brought us to follow you, but what you share aside from that is honest!!! What you see is what you get. And humor helps gets us through. You are blessed with that talent too.
So, I’m afraid you are stuck with all of us!!!
Can’t wait to see what you do for the loft!!! It’s going to be another great project!!! Oh, I’ve purchased a couple of your OOTD items!! Love your fashion style too!
I always stop and read your blog immediately when it is in my inbox. It is always entertaining and educational. Your projects are mind boggling to me. I feel like you are a friend sharing TV shows and recipes. A REAL person. Thanks.
I want to give you positive affirmation. I always enjoy your posts and point of view. Thank you.
I've had chronic depression since my teen years and have been medicated for about 25 years now which makes me feel fairly 'normal.' Right now I'm also feeling like I'm in a low-grade depression and it's not cool at all.
I read somewhere that moods are like weather systems; they blow in and they blow out. I like that analogy.
All the best to you!
We are a kindred spirit and I adore your blog ... the fashion,the home,and of course, your wit! I look forward to reading every single one of your posts. How often or seldom you feel like writing, I will be here.
Thanks for always being open. Makes me feel like I can do the same.
Sherrbear, I always get goosies when I see a post in my in box from you. I think 99% of us deal with mild depression from time to time and this past year has been extremely difficult for you and a lot of other people. Hang in there my friend, continue your exercise, continue your postings, even though at times you feel they’re mindless, we still love hearing from you. You lift us up with your talent, your wit, your humor and I’m hoping that after reading all of the wonderful responses from your followers, you too feel lifted up. Know that I’m thinking of you and I’m really looking forward to seeing and meeting you one day. You may know that Rose has been helping me with my house in Sugarloaf, you referred her to me way back when....she has been a god send and I’ve loved working with her. Any who, I hope the two of you will come work your magic on the insides once the house is finished. Take care 😘
Sherry, I think there are many who feel just as you do. I'm hoping that nicer weather and lots of people being vaccinated will help us out of the doldrums! One question, please: I'm also in metro Atlanta. What flea markets do you recommend? Obviously I know about Scott's. But what else? Thanks for all that you share!
I have been following you for years now and can truly say your blog and Instagram posts are always bright spots for me. I have also dealt with depression after a terrible tragedy and know of no other way than to just "keep on keeping on," and embrace anything that distracts, entertains, uplifts, and makes you feel better (like your posts do for all of us!). I truly appreciate your honesty. Sending love and hugs your way.
Dearest Sherry,
You are an inspiration and a friend to us all. You have fabulous taste, a sharp and real wit, and of course, and an excellent eye. I love what you do. The world does indeed feel fragile even with the little bits of good news (vaccines up, the economy coming back) so I try to look for the hope. It’s a tough time. We’re with you and send support and love. 💕Thank you.
I'm a fan and wish you all the best. Your blog is so enjoyable for me.
Dear Sherry - I hear you ... I am sure I also have a mild depression as well. I can imagine many feel the same, our lives have altered dramatically, and you have been through a major life change on top of that. Don't feel you have to come on here and “fake it” . Your loyal readers “get it” and want to be there to support you . You are loved sweet lady ! And your blog is a joy no matter what you post ! Take care of yourself and go easy on you too ! xoxo
Also - have to say that I totally agree with Don Richards, who commented above. “Lurkers” on blogs need to comment more and make their appreciation known. I have been enjoying your blog and Instagram for years, and yet never commented and told you that ! I will make sure I do that from now on !! Thank you for a thoroughly enjoyable and beautiful blog !!
Thanks for being honest. Sometimes I worry about bloggers, impossible to be always so cheery. I do love Charlie’s bedroom ceiling light, I want that for my laundry room.
Thanks for sharing your life with its ups and downs with us. I love seeing a new post from you - interior design, this and that..whatever. But your health comes first. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself - physically and emotionally. Pease know that we're all rooting for you!
I'll check out that series, thanks for the tip. If you haven't seen it yet, you should really try The Imposters, it might be on AppleTV not Netflix, not sure!
We love your posts, Shari and as someone who struggles with depression...and on an antidepressant, I get it! I wish I had brilliant advice to share, as I love to give advice, but the only thing that really helped me, post-divorce, was a year of counseling. Don’t stress about the blog. We’ll be here when you are. Take care, Barbara
Dear Sheri: I am a lurker, and I just want you to know how much I love to read your blog. I love your name changing closings too. You are an inspiration, and I am sorry I never told you that. Keep on keeping on. You may not feel like yourself, you may feel like you are dragging, and uninspiring to us. But what we see is a lovely, funny, talented, honest, hard working woman who truly is a light in our day. Keep doing your exercise, healthy eating (most times!), and visits with friends and family. We would be lost without you! Kate-to-the-party! ; )
Sheri, you are the light in many of our lives. All of us adore you gifted ability to design and put things together (home, fashion, etc), but many of us too share a lot of life experiences with you. It will get better, not as soon as you would like. It will make you question yourself - DON'T!!!! We are not responsible for other's life decisions. You can't make someone do something or not do something. Jerks will be jerks. Choosing a jerk doesn't mean you are stupid or a jerk. It simply means they are responsible for their stupid choices to hurt people. All of us only wish we could bring you the light and joy you bring to us. We love you!!!
Please take good care of yourself. It’s obvious your blogland friends just want what’s best for you. Post, don’t post. Do what feels right for you. This pandemic year is hard on everyone. We should get Girl Scouts badges for getting through the day!
I love reading your blog for your great design sense. But for the last year I have also read to check in on you. Your bravery and openness have touched me deeply. Please know you are thought about and cared for - even though we’ve never met.
You’re not quitting anything, you’re simply changing your routine. Change is good! I too have been in a funk for several months and finally (I pray) I’m starting to feel more joyful. Unfortunately I’ve hit a different kind of depression when I went shopping for a new bathing suit this past weekend. Yikes! This morning I googled how to lose 5lb and this afternoon I ate chocolate. We’re going to Sea Island to celebrate my 68th birthday this coming weekend and I’m half hoping for cloudy breezy weather so I can keep my cover-up on. You are an inspiration, your readers adore you and we wish we could give back. English is not my first language so I hesitate to post because I struggle with spelling, grammar and sentence structure. I couldn’t help but to comment when I read your post. Hugs!
Hi! I read every word of your blogs- you are always so interesting. You have so much talent and you are kind to share that with your readers. Whether you are demonstrating outstanding design skills or showing what you wore today, no matter what you blog about, you offer so much to your readers!
I read the other comments and thought, what a great group of people!
You may be going through one of the more difficult stages of grieving. They’re all hard, can’t be rushed and it is necessary. My emotions would be effected when ever I was entering a new stage. Once you go through a few of them you will recognize both the grief and growth. I am sorry that you have to go through this. Considering all the other things that are going on around us for the past year it must be even more difficult. You are loved and respected by more people than you realize. Prayers!
Hi Sherry - was wondering where you were...like many other comments here, I too always enjoy reading your blog posts and hope you will continue. As to this post, I believe i had that coffee table in 1976 from Thayer Coggin — it was 4x4 burlwood (?sp) and low (forget the height) — i loved it but eventually it was too big to keep—the one you found looks just like it (wood tone and size). :)
Take care, Maureen
I’m a lurker who has read your blog for years. I love your style & humor and I always get a kick out of seeing how you’ll sign off with your name each time. I am in my 40s and hope to be as stylish, beautiful & driven as you are when I’m your age. I’ve always admired how much you workout & your healthy eating! I experienced a difficult family situation / loss a couple of months before Covid... so I was already in an anxious & sad place at the beginning of the pandemic... it has been a rough 16 months. I few months ago I found Nedra Tawwab on Instagram (she’s a therapist and has a new book out) and she has really helped me! Check out her posts sometime! I definitely understand the need to take a break to take care of yourself. Hugs!
Your blog is so design worthy combined with a dash of humor. Hope you continue with your blog and your dose of life's reality.
Always a treat to read about your adventures. Good luck and continued success.
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